Undivided attention is another sign of respect. You may have noticed that very few people listen with complete attention. Most people half-listen, and if you ask them to repeat what you have just said, they cannot. They may appear to be listening, but i
“專一”是尊重對(duì)方的另一表現(xiàn)。你也許察覺(jué)到很少有人一心一意地聽(tīng)別人講話。多數(shù)人只是半心半意地聽(tīng)。如果你請(qǐng)他們復(fù)述你剛才說(shuō)過(guò)的話,他們是不可能復(fù)述出來(lái)的。他們可能看上去是在聽(tīng)著,但是事實(shí)上有許多事情在他們頭腦里轉(zhuǎn)來(lái)轉(zhuǎn)去--購(gòu)物清單呀,要做的事呀,令人煩惱的事?2274